Just a blog about my thoughts, whats on my mind at that point in time and what its like to be married with two kids and one on the way. Lifes an adventure here for sure...
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Friday, March 15, 2013
A little something we all need reminding of...
YOU are an amazing mother...yes you! No matter what anyone says. No matter if you adopted, fostered or gave birth to your child. You are still amazing! You are amazing whether you breastfeed or formula feed, whether you co-sleep or not, whether you wear your child or not...you are all still so amazing. The beauty of motherhood is there is no one way to do it. You have to find your groove with parenting and dive right in. Being a parent no matter how you come into is one of the hardest things you can do, if not the hardest! Embrace it. Be you and dont let others control your choices. Its clear we all have very strong opinions in regards to mothering but it does not mean you have to alienate others. The battles consists of:
Breastfeeding VS Formula feeding
Circumcision VS Uncircumcision
Vaccinating VS Not Vaccinating
Co-sleeping VS Not Co-sleeping
Cloth diapering VS Disposables
SAHM VS Paid Working Job
Cry it out VS attending to your childs cries
Forward Facing VS Rear Facing and so on and so on...
There are so many choices to be made as a mother why would you make it your lifes mission to make anyone feel bad about those choices. Anyone who knows me knows where I stand on most things but also knows that I am open minded and willing to listen to arguments for or against.
No subject is off limits to me. No subject is 100% for me. I love hearing both sides and making an education choice on that subject. So I do change my mind especially when presented with facts and evidence or having done my own research and made a choice with what im comfortable with. I dont know many who as mothers came into mother hood with one idea and didnt change it at one point in time. Motherhood is about growing and learning!
Ill close this post by saying that NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE AN AMAZING MOTHER! NEVER LET ANYONE TELL YOU OTHERWISE OR MAKE YOU FEEL OTHERWISE!
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